“Coaching” is sometimes used as a catch‑all for therapy, consulting work, or mentoring. Each modality has its own benefits, and, throughout their career, the best leaders will draw on different types of support.
Role clarity is an important part of my work. Therefore, here is an attempt to distinguish between these different support modes:
- Coaching means I create a structured, goal‑directed space for you to reflect, explore and decide at your pace. My job is to help you bring your own resources to bear fully, with greater self‑awareness and personal clarity. My coaching is guided by the International Coaching Federation’s Core Competencies , which emphasise self‑discovery and the coachee’s accountability for their own actions and outcomes.
- Mentoring often focuses on the mentor’s own personal experience and perspective. Mentors can act as role-models and often give advice on what they would do in any given situation. Many leaders benefit from both mentoring and coaching at different points in their development. Over the course of my career, I have participated in, and benefited from, a number of (reverse) mentoring relationships. Still, it is important to recognise that the role of a mentor (often advice-giving) is distinct from that of a coach (focus on self-discovery). Some of my clients use coaching conversations to gain clarity on what they are looking for in a mentor, and how they can grow their own network of advisors and role-models.
- Consulting projects usually call for my judgement – a clear point of view, a recommended course of action. In executive coaching engagements, there can be moments where a similarly clear perspective is helpful. When that’s the case, we ensure that role clarity is maintained and that you, as the coachee, stay in the driver’s seat. Your goals and your own insight and experience stay front and center throughout any coaching engagement.
- Therapy is again different from coaching. Very simply put: therapy is often the right setting when someone is lacking the mental resources they need. Coaching, however, is usually the right setting when those resources are there, and the task is primarily to apply them in a goal-directed way. It is possible to work with a coach and a therapist at the same time – though that requires clear boundaries on what topics get covered where. As a coachee, you take responsibility for your own psychological wellbeing throughout our work together.
